What is the impact in our life when you started following dating tips from self proclaimed gurus?

i used to follow them but it caused me the love of my life, if your wer givin a tips from a big brother sister or a friend should yu follow it, if not where will you base your action

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  1. Good sens able tips. Never sweat a person ie call them constantly or text them like a mad person. Call once, leave a message and wait until they get back with you. Same with texting. You should wait a while to have sex with a guy because guys love the chase, and if you are "caught" before they really get to know the girl, the guy loses interest. It all feels the same after all. And always look at a guys actions to know how they really feel about a girl - their words are often cheap and meaningless if their actions are not backing it up. ie he says he loves you but doesn't show up or call you when he says or if he is verbally abusive.
  2. hi. yeah go with the advice or people you know and trust. not some guy you never met who write a book. you don't know what is going on in their head, they might some kind or deluded wacko or something. listen to good people who you've known for ages, when you can check their character over a long time. but try and be yourself at the same time, if you fake it totally, people will know you're fake. I never really followed stuff out of books etc. show a girl material from this guru, and see if she laughs her head off or vomits haha
  3. Even a guru can't be right 100% of the time. But generally, advice helps. It definitely helped me. You have to realize that dating is a numbers game. It's all about probabilities... nothing is for certain. *Most* people like X, but there will always be a few who want Y. So if you've been doing Y all along, you could get lucky; but you're much more likely to be successful if you do X. Accept dating advice for what it is. It's there to help you maximize your chances, but it never pretends to guarantee results. Anyone who guarantees results is out of touch with reality.
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